I am at a point where i'm now assessing that all-in move, i agree its a tool and it's something that seriously needs to be used wisely.

But the thing is when you play the pot bets or over there is always that possibility that people will call to see more cards (or hands if you like), fish in other words and if you read the cards and someone makes a raise there is nothing stopping you from thinking "that person has a better hand then you" then the person turns over their cards and you feel mugged once again.

Getting into the flow of a game is very hard at the time being, your watching chips going from hither to tither, no one is really making a mark on the game.
If you semi bluff you find the person has the hand,
You don't feel comfortable making a two pair with a pair on the board 'cause of a possible trip.
Your top pair with low kicker constantly gets beat.
Your top pair with high kicker gets beat by low two pairs.
Your full-house gets beaten by a higher full-house.

But everyone else around the table seems to be winning with the hands i've just mentioned above. But no-one is getting knocked out cause four people are going all-in and the chips split in some mad way. It's quite funny watching but frustrating when you are sure you have the best hand.